Fuckin' Burlesque

Last year at this time I was dancing in a Burlesque show. I was probably about 5-8 lbs lighter and in much better shape. I'm understudying this year's and the ladies are at my house rehearsing...and good christ. I have to lose a lot of weight.
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.

Fuckin' seriously.
God.

Although, my rack and my legs still look amazing.

Body image is such a problem for women. Because honestly, most women look great. We're all beautiful in our own right. But all it takes is one comment.
"you've gained some weight since we started dating"
and WHAM.
Feeling sexy or desirable is like pulling teeth. And you start to notice you're wearing clothes to cover up.
You find yourself apologizing to new flames for being fat.
But you're not.

So, guys, be careful. There are ways to let a girl know..if you absolutely MUST. Talk to another woman first. She'll help you. And if you're lucky you won't destroy another woman's self-image.

I'm being a baby. I know.